Just a quick note on the previous post. Gemma Thoms died from an ectasy overdose at Big Day Out in Perth on the weekend. Her friends and extended social network have created a Facebook RIP page for her. The first I heard of this was on the Channel Ten evening TV news program.
This group has nearly 500 members already and a couple of hundred wall posts. The sudden death of a 17 year old will spur large numbers of people to commiserate together. Note that they are gathering news articles and posting them up, as well as discussing the role of the Media:
THIS IS AN IMPORTANT NOTICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Uhoh. Too late? Every friend, acquaintance and sympathiser is already blogging, Facebooking and MySpacing their condolences and memorials. And the press are reading it. Remember the doofer who disappeared at a concert? The journalist printed the comments and discussions from a very small, out-of-the-public-eye (or so they though) forum. I think we will see ethic statements coming out of traditional media sooner or later whereby they differentiate between unsuspecting comments on a blog vs actual answers to interview questions by a journo.
MySpace removes the pages of young people who have died, particularly suicides and “interest to the press”, if the immediate family request it. A big mistake I think – these kids belong to their friends as much as to their families. Anyway, the friends will create 100’s of memorial pages instead of just using one. Which one is easier for MySpace/the family to monitor?
It’s always difficult to discuss death in a community – particularly as value systems are very sensitive around this topic. What is tasteful and what is not? How do we know if someone is just being a drama queen, seeking attention or genuinely bereft?
But consider this. We are not far away from the day when there will be more content created by those that have passed on than those currently living. And the next generation, those late Gen Y’s and early Noughties, when googling a subject or keyword will suddenly be faced with a webpage belonging to their mother or grandmother. No more to be packed up in boxes and sadly placed in the garage or donated to the Salvation Army but flick through Facebook or Myspace or Twitter and be confronted by the thoughts and creative content of those who are no longer with us, in this world.
The press need to be very very careful when pulling content from forums, Facebook, blogs and MySpace of young people who have passed on in tragic circumstances. As indeed do all of us.
Note: Gemma Thoms actual Facebook page is locked down, gated, not open to the press. I don’t know if it always was, or if the family/Facebook changed the access privileges after this tragic event.